{"id":2004,"date":"2012-06-04T06:00:45","date_gmt":"2012-06-04T13:00:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.educatoral.com\/wordpress\/?p=2004"},"modified":"2012-06-03T22:29:48","modified_gmt":"2012-06-04T05:29:48","slug":"real-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/educatoral.com\/wordpress\/2012\/06\/04\/real-life\/","title":{"rendered":"Real Life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/photobucket.com\/images\/real%20life\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft\" style=\"border: 0pt none;\" src=\"http:\/\/i1052.photobucket.com\/albums\/s445\/luckylukegc9360\/Facebook\/Untitled%20Album-1\/564192_362124163847354_100001493211324_1014530_1084643860_n.jpg\" alt=\"Painting on a hand giving a look of a real wild life creature Pictures, Images and Photos\" width=\"240\" height=\"164\" align=\"left\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a>We talk a lot about preparing our students for real life. We entice them with the reward of high marks (A&#8217;s, 100%&#8217;s, 3&#8217;s and 4&#8217;s) and we threaten them with failure (F&#8217;s, 0&#8217;s, 1&#8217;s and 2&#8217;s). It&#8217;s easy to think that enticing kids with high marks works because of the kids who work hard for those high marks. They make us feel good as educators. What I find most amazing is that teachers think that giving zeroes and F&#8217;s does any good. First of all, how many kids do F&#8217;s and zeroes actually motivate to improve or do their work? Out of how many? Are the odds worth it? So if it&#8217;s not for motivating kids or for getting them to actually want to learn then teachers see it as necessary to teach kids a lesson. Kids must see what happens when you don&#8217;t do what you&#8217;re told, when you don&#8217;t do your work, or when you turn your work in late. I thought that too. What made me change my mind? Well, plainly and simply was that giving out zeroes and F&#8217;s not only didn&#8217;t help any of the students receiving those low marks, I&#8217;m not even sure they learned &#8220;the&#8221; lesson. I just didn&#8217;t see how it did any good to flunk them. For whatever reason, they didn&#8217;t want to, or couldn&#8217;t, do the work that the rest of the class was doing. I am still working on how to get kids to either want to do the work we&#8217;re doing or to come up with something that they are willing to do during our time together. That is still a work in progress and I have opinions as to why some kids just aren&#8217;t willing to do anything in class. With regards to the A students or the C students I really just want them to focus on the topics, on the learning, and not on the points or the grade. Yep, I value intrinsic motivation and that is what I want help foster in my students. Part of my mission statement is that I want to help kids become life long learners. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.educatoral.com\/wordpress\/2010\/03\/06\/do-grades-help-or-hinder-learning\/\">Grades hinder<\/a> that goal.<\/p>\n<p>I struggled with grading and with rewards and punishments to motivate kids. What helped me a lot was the following video on motivation. Dan Pink&#8217;s research, along with Alfie Kohn&#8217;s, has given me so much to think about and that is why I made sweeping changes to how I work with kids. (Thanks to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.joebower.org\/\">Joe Bower<\/a>, too!) If you haven&#8217;t watch this video you need to watch it.<\/p>\n<p>Dan Pink&#8217;s motivation video, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.educatoral.com\/wordpress\/2010\/05\/15\/dan-pink-on-motivation\/\">which I shared here<\/a>.<br \/>\n<object width=\"560\" height=\"340\" classid=\"clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000\" codebase=\"http:\/\/download.macromedia.com\/pub\/shockwave\/cabs\/flash\/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0\"><param name=\"allowFullScreen\" value=\"true\" \/><param name=\"allowscriptaccess\" value=\"always\" \/><param name=\"src\" value=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/u6XAPnuFjJc&amp;hl=en_US&amp;fs=1&amp;rel=0&amp;color1=0x402061&amp;color2=0x9461ca\" \/><param name=\"allowfullscreen\" value=\"true\" \/><embed width=\"560\" height=\"340\" type=\"application\/x-shockwave-flash\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/u6XAPnuFjJc&amp;hl=en_US&amp;fs=1&amp;rel=0&amp;color1=0x402061&amp;color2=0x9461ca\" allowFullScreen=\"true\" allowscriptaccess=\"always\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" \/><\/object><\/p>\n<p>Here are all three parts of a video on competition that gave me a lot to think about as well. It&#8217;s well worth the watch and all three parts together last about 20 minutes. I first shared this video <a href=\"http:\/\/www.educatoral.com\/wordpress\/2011\/01\/15\/awards-grades-and-competition\/\">here<\/a>. It validated a lot of what I believe so having someone say these things really helped me have confidence that the things I&#8217;m doing are in the best interest of my students. If you haven&#8217;t watched these I highly recommend them.<\/p>\n<p><object width=\"480\" height=\"385\" classid=\"clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000\" codebase=\"http:\/\/download.macromedia.com\/pub\/shockwave\/cabs\/flash\/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0\"><param name=\"allowFullScreen\" value=\"true\" \/><param name=\"allowscriptaccess\" value=\"always\" \/><param name=\"src\" value=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/RIsvQAwbTfE?fs=1&amp;hl=en_US&amp;rel=0&amp;color1=0x402061&amp;color2=0x9461ca\" \/><param name=\"allowfullscreen\" value=\"true\" \/><embed width=\"480\" height=\"385\" type=\"application\/x-shockwave-flash\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/RIsvQAwbTfE?fs=1&amp;hl=en_US&amp;rel=0&amp;color1=0x402061&amp;color2=0x9461ca\" allowFullScreen=\"true\" allowscriptaccess=\"always\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" \/><\/object><\/p>\n<p><object width=\"480\" height=\"385\" classid=\"clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000\" codebase=\"http:\/\/download.macromedia.com\/pub\/shockwave\/cabs\/flash\/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0\"><param name=\"allowFullScreen\" value=\"true\" \/><param name=\"allowscriptaccess\" value=\"always\" \/><param name=\"src\" value=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/xapfiMAqqz8?fs=1&amp;hl=en_US&amp;rel=0&amp;color1=0x402061&amp;color2=0x9461ca\" \/><param name=\"allowfullscreen\" value=\"true\" \/><embed width=\"480\" height=\"385\" type=\"application\/x-shockwave-flash\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/xapfiMAqqz8?fs=1&amp;hl=en_US&amp;rel=0&amp;color1=0x402061&amp;color2=0x9461ca\" allowFullScreen=\"true\" allowscriptaccess=\"always\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" \/><\/object><\/p>\n<p><object width=\"480\" height=\"385\" classid=\"clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000\" codebase=\"http:\/\/download.macromedia.com\/pub\/shockwave\/cabs\/flash\/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0\"><param name=\"allowFullScreen\" value=\"true\" \/><param name=\"allowscriptaccess\" value=\"always\" \/><param name=\"src\" value=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/-cSk1buoXzs?fs=1&amp;hl=en_US&amp;rel=0&amp;color1=0x402061&amp;color2=0x9461ca\" \/><param name=\"allowfullscreen\" value=\"true\" \/><embed width=\"480\" height=\"385\" type=\"application\/x-shockwave-flash\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/-cSk1buoXzs?fs=1&amp;hl=en_US&amp;rel=0&amp;color1=0x402061&amp;color2=0x9461ca\" allowFullScreen=\"true\" allowscriptaccess=\"always\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" \/><\/object><\/p>\n<p>So how could anyone watch all four of the above videos and still not want to change the way they work with kids?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We talk a lot about preparing our students for real life. 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